Third-Party Persuasion · Relationship Recovery · Marriage Crisis Support
18 years of practical experience using psychology-informed relationship analysis and low-conflict strategy to reduce escalation risk and preserve realistic recovery options.
Relieved Xianyu's Spiritual Detective service is personally led by founder Deo Chen. His uniqueness lies in combining the investigative capability of a private detective with the emotional intervention techniques of a psychological healer — a combination virtually non-existent in the industry.
"In my third year in the industry, I received a strange call. The caller said he felt colleagues were ostracizing him. I sensed something was wrong and tried to refer him to psychological counseling — he refused directly and said 'none of you can help me,' then hung up.
That person later committed a shocking child murder case in Taiwan. That call made me never forget: sometimes, one phone call, one person who listens — it can truly change everything."
Deo Chen has worked as a private detective for over 18 years, receiving the most rigorous investigative training, while also being a US NGH International Certified Hypnotherapist, SSC International Certified Spiritual Counselor, and a marriage and emotional handling expert of the Taiwan Marriage Crisis Management Association. Over 18 years, he has personally saved countless marriages on the brink of collapse.
Trained under high-dimensional healer Lin Xin, he finds the root blockages in interpersonal and marital problems through the "empty gate" between the third-dimensional and high-dimensional realms. His investigative ability lets him precisely grasp the third party's psychological dynamics; his healing ability lets him genuinely change hearts.
Additionally, real cases from Deo Chen's first three detective years were adapted into the idol drama "Love Detective Agency" starring celebrated Taiwanese actor Jimmy Dou, produced by LeTV. He has also been invited multiple times to share investigative and marriage counseling insights on major Taiwanese TV networks including CTi, SET, EBC, and GTV.
By deeply understanding the third party's psychological state and emotional attachment patterns, our empathy specialists naturally build trust, then guide the third party to internally recognize that stepping away is the right choice — the approach that creates the most lasting results.
After the third party exits, restoring the marriage is the real challenge. Chen's counseling team helps both partners understand the root cause of the relationship breakdown, rebuilding trust and emotional connection through hypnotherapy, NLP, and high-dimensional energy healing.
When you discover something is wrong in your marriage, the first challenge is often not knowing who you can tell. Relieved Xianyu provides confidential one-on-one counseling to help you clarify the situation, understand your choices, and develop the response plan that's right for you. No judgment — only presence.
Relieved Xianyu's unique integrated service — combining infidelity evidence investigation (if litigation is needed) with the Spiritual Detective's psychological support, so you hold legal leverage while never losing the strength to face the future. Investigation and healing, in parallel.
Every case is unique, but the following is our standard operational framework. All actions are executed within strict confidentiality and legal compliance.
Step one: we need to fully understand your situation — including the marriage background, duration of the affair, basic profile of the third party (personality, profession, emotional depth with your spouse), and your goal: maintaining the marriage? Evidence collection needed? The initial consultation is completely free. Its purpose is to help us honestly assess the case's feasibility and success probability — not to take your money and leave you disappointed.
Before contacting the third party, our investigators and psychological analysts use OSINT intelligence to build an initial psychological profile: personality traits, emotional needs, self-perception, social patterns, and potential psychological vulnerabilities. This is the critical foundation for determining the persuasion strategy — different people require completely different emotional guidance approaches.
Our empathy specialists make contact with the third party in the most natural way — perhaps as a new acquaintance or through business connections. Critically: we never reveal our true identity. All contact is conducted in ways meaningful to the third party, allowing her to naturally reveal her true emotional state and genuine feelings about the relationship in a completely unguarded state.
This is the most core and professionally demanding step. Through multiple natural conversation interactions, we guide the third party to recognize: the true harm this relationship is causing her, whether her emotional needs are genuinely being met, and what she truly desires at the deepest level. When a person recognizes something from within, the decisions they make are genuinely lasting.
After the third party exits, the marriage doesn't automatically heal. Affairs typically signal deeper relationship issues — communication patterns, emotional need gaps, personal energy states. Relieved Xianyu provides subsequent marriage restoration counseling, with Chen and the psychological team accompanying the couple through the healing journey to rebuild genuine emotional connection.
Spiritual Detective cases are rarely just about one affair. They often involve dual-city marriages, business travel, overseas cohabitation, family pressure, emotional dependency, and the psychological needs of the third party. Relieved Xianyu structures each case around the client's marital objective, the third party's role, the spouse's current stance, and the realities of cross-border execution.
Suitable for cases where the spouse and third party share overlapping daily circles, frequent local contact, emotional attachment, or a marriage already in cold war mode. The goal is to stabilize the client emotionally, reduce the spouse's defensiveness, and create a path for the third party to exit without open confrontation.
Suitable for cross-strait marriages, long business travel schedules, workplace affairs in Mainland China, high-frequency WeChat-linked relationships, and visible behavioral shifts around Taiwan-China travel. These cases often require intervention around distance, commitment expectations, and resource dependency.
Suitable for high-mobility professionals, short-stay relationships, discreet meetings, and socially embedded third party dynamics. The real issue is usually not only how to persuade the third party to leave, but understanding whether she is seeking affection, security, status, or material stability.
Suitable for expatriate cohabitation, local-partner dependency, second-life circles overseas, remittance-supported relationships, and long-term hidden support arrangements. These cases often involve both emotional replacement and financial dependence, so persuasion must be paired with a realistic relationship transition strategy.
Suitable for study-abroad, immigration, cross-border marriages, long-distance marriages, and overseas spouse cases involving third party interference. The focus is on emotional disconnection, value drift, loneliness compensation, and building a practical recovery path through remote guidance and localized coordination.
No matter what stage you're in, you can begin with one confidential conversation. Tell us what happened, what you fear, and what outcome you want. We will assess the situation honestly and tell you what is feasible before you commit to anything.
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