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PERSONAL · EMOTIONAL CRISIS · SPIRITUAL DETECTIVE

A Marriage in Crisis
Doesn't Have to End
The Spiritual Detective

Third-Party Persuasion · Relationship Recovery · Marriage Crisis Support
18 years of practical experience using psychology-informed relationship analysis and low-conflict strategy to reduce escalation risk and preserve realistic recovery options.

18yr
Years Marriage Crisis
NGH+SSC
Certified Hypnotherapist
Absolute Confidentiality
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SPIRITUAL DETECTIVE
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Psychology-Driven
NLP, hypnotherapy, micro-expression reading, empathy redirection — making the third party choose to leave from within, creating lasting results.
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No Confrontation
Threats, intimidation, public exposure — these often backfire and escalate conflict. Our approach makes the third party choose to leave on their own.
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Strict Confidentiality
The entire process operates without your spouse's knowledge. All case details are protected by NDA. Absolute privacy guaranteed.
TEAM · 核心團隊

The Person Leading This Team
Isn't Just a Detective — He's a Healer

Relieved Xianyu's Spiritual Detective service is personally led by founder Deo Chen. His uniqueness lies in combining the investigative capability of a private detective with the emotional intervention techniques of a psychological healer — a combination virtually non-existent in the industry.

"In my third year in the industry, I received a strange call. The caller said he felt colleagues were ostracizing him. I sensed something was wrong and tried to refer him to psychological counseling — he refused directly and said 'none of you can help me,' then hung up.

That person later committed a shocking child murder case in Taiwan. That call made me never forget: sometimes, one phone call, one person who listens — it can truly change everything."

— Deo Chen, Founder, Relieved Xianyu

Deo Chen has worked as a private detective for over 18 years, receiving the most rigorous investigative training, while also being a US NGH International Certified Hypnotherapist, SSC International Certified Spiritual Counselor, and a marriage and emotional handling expert of the Taiwan Marriage Crisis Management Association. Over 18 years, he has personally saved countless marriages on the brink of collapse.

Trained under high-dimensional healer Lin Xin, he finds the root blockages in interpersonal and marital problems through the "empty gate" between the third-dimensional and high-dimensional realms. His investigative ability lets him precisely grasp the third party's psychological dynamics; his healing ability lets him genuinely change hearts.

Additionally, real cases from Deo Chen's first three detective years were adapted into the idol drama "Love Detective Agency" starring celebrated Taiwanese actor Jimmy Dou, produced by LeTV. He has also been invited multiple times to share investigative and marriage counseling insights on major Taiwanese TV networks including CTi, SET, EBC, and GTV.

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SERVICE · 服務範圍

What the Spiritual Detective Offers

01 · 小三勸退服務
Third Party Persuasion

By deeply understanding the third party's psychological state and emotional attachment patterns, our empathy specialists naturally build trust, then guide the third party to internally recognize that stepping away is the right choice — the approach that creates the most lasting results.

02 · 感情挽回
Relationship Restoration

After the third party exits, restoring the marriage is the real challenge. Chen's counseling team helps both partners understand the root cause of the relationship breakdown, rebuilding trust and emotional connection through hypnotherapy, NLP, and high-dimensional energy healing.

03 · 婚姻危機諮商
Marriage Crisis Counseling

When you discover something is wrong in your marriage, the first challenge is often not knowing who you can tell. Relieved Xianyu provides confidential one-on-one counseling to help you clarify the situation, understand your choices, and develop the response plan that's right for you. No judgment — only presence.

04 · 外遇調查 + 心理整合
Investigation + Psychological Integration

Relieved Xianyu's unique integrated service — combining infidelity evidence investigation (if litigation is needed) with the Spiritual Detective's psychological support, so you hold legal leverage while never losing the strength to face the future. Investigation and healing, in parallel.

PROCESS · 服務流程

How We Execute Third Party Persuasion

Every case is unique, but the following is our standard operational framework. All actions are executed within strict confidentiality and legal compliance.

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ASSESSMENT · 案情評估
In-Depth Case Consultation (Free)

Step one: we need to fully understand your situation — including the marriage background, duration of the affair, basic profile of the third party (personality, profession, emotional depth with your spouse), and your goal: maintaining the marriage? Evidence collection needed? The initial consultation is completely free. Its purpose is to help us honestly assess the case's feasibility and success probability — not to take your money and leave you disappointed.

02
PROFILING · 第三者側寫
Third Party Psychological Profiling

Before contacting the third party, our investigators and psychological analysts use OSINT intelligence to build an initial psychological profile: personality traits, emotional needs, self-perception, social patterns, and potential psychological vulnerabilities. This is the critical foundation for determining the persuasion strategy — different people require completely different emotional guidance approaches.

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CONTACT · 接觸引導
Natural Contact Establishment

Our empathy specialists make contact with the third party in the most natural way — perhaps as a new acquaintance or through business connections. Critically: we never reveal our true identity. All contact is conducted in ways meaningful to the third party, allowing her to naturally reveal her true emotional state and genuine feelings about the relationship in a completely unguarded state.

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GUIDANCE · 心理引導
Emotional Guidance — Inspiring Her to Choose to Leave

This is the most core and professionally demanding step. Through multiple natural conversation interactions, we guide the third party to recognize: the true harm this relationship is causing her, whether her emotional needs are genuinely being met, and what she truly desires at the deepest level. When a person recognizes something from within, the decisions they make are genuinely lasting.

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RESTORATION · 婚姻修復
Marriage Restoration Accompaniment (Optional)

After the third party exits, the marriage doesn't automatically heal. Affairs typically signal deeper relationship issues — communication patterns, emotional need gaps, personal energy states. Relieved Xianyu provides subsequent marriage restoration counseling, with Chen and the psychological team accompanying the couple through the healing journey to rebuild genuine emotional connection.

DIFFERENCE · 我們的不同

Why We Don't Take the Confrontational Route?

⚠ 常見但危險的方式
Confrontational Approaches
  • Directly confronting or threatening the third party
  • Publicly exposing the third party on social media
  • Notifying the third party's family or employer
  • Triggering conflict in front of your spouse
  • Result: escalates conflict, deepens emotional bond between them
✦ 安心羨予心靈偵探
Psychology-Guided Approach
  • Natural contact, true identity never revealed
  • Guiding the third party to recognize the situation from within
  • She chooses to exit voluntarily — lasting results
  • Spouse remains unaware, family atmosphere stays stable
  • Result: third party exits voluntarily, marriage preserved
CASE · 代表案例

Real Stories

CASE · TAIPEI · 2023 · 婚姻危機挽回
Taipei Business Owner, 11-Year Marriage: The Third Party Sent a Breakup Message on Her Own
The client was a female Taipei business owner who discovered her husband had been having an affair with a young female employee for nearly a year. Her first impulse was to directly confront the woman — we advised her not to act yet.

After building the third party's psychological profile, we discovered she was someone who deeply needed emotional validation, but what she was getting from the client's husband was mostly material promises rather than genuine emotional connection.

Our empathy specialist built a relationship with her through natural contact. Through four interactions, she was guided to re-examine what this relationship genuinely meant for herself. On day 29, the woman sent a message to the client's husband on her own, saying she had thought it through and felt the relationship had no future — initiating the breakup herself.

The client later told us her husband was coming home far more often, and the couple had begun marriage counseling together.
GLOBAL COVERAGE · CROSS-BORDER RELATIONSHIP SUPPORT

Global Operational Areas:
Supporting Third Party Persuasion, Marriage Restoration, and Cross-Border Relationship Crisis Intervention

Spiritual Detective cases are rarely just about one affair. They often involve dual-city marriages, business travel, overseas cohabitation, family pressure, emotional dependency, and the psychological needs of the third party. Relieved Xianyu structures each case around the client's marital objective, the third party's role, the spouse's current stance, and the realities of cross-border execution.

REGION · 01
Taiwan

Suitable for cases where the spouse and third party share overlapping daily circles, frequent local contact, emotional attachment, or a marriage already in cold war mode. The goal is to stabilize the client emotionally, reduce the spouse's defensiveness, and create a path for the third party to exit without open confrontation.

REGION · 02
Mainland China & Cross-Strait Routes

Suitable for cross-strait marriages, long business travel schedules, workplace affairs in Mainland China, high-frequency WeChat-linked relationships, and visible behavioral shifts around Taiwan-China travel. These cases often require intervention around distance, commitment expectations, and resource dependency.

REGION · 03
Hong Kong, Macau & Offshore Business Circles

Suitable for high-mobility professionals, short-stay relationships, discreet meetings, and socially embedded third party dynamics. The real issue is usually not only how to persuade the third party to leave, but understanding whether she is seeking affection, security, status, or material stability.

REGION · 04
Southeast Asia

Suitable for expatriate cohabitation, local-partner dependency, second-life circles overseas, remittance-supported relationships, and long-term hidden support arrangements. These cases often involve both emotional replacement and financial dependence, so persuasion must be paired with a realistic relationship transition strategy.

REGION · 05
North America, Europe & Other Overseas Regions

Suitable for study-abroad, immigration, cross-border marriages, long-distance marriages, and overseas spouse cases involving third party interference. The focus is on emotional disconnection, value drift, loneliness compensation, and building a practical recovery path through remote guidance and localized coordination.

FAQ · 常見問題

Questions You May Have

Can third party persuasion, mistress withdrawal strategy, and infidelity evidence planning be combined?
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Yes. Infidelity evidence planning focuses on legal leverage, divorce preparation, and proof of an affair, while third party persuasion and mistress withdrawal strategy focus on reducing attachment and guiding the third party to leave voluntarily. These services are often combined in Taiwan, Mainland China, and cross-border marriage crisis cases where clients want both legal protection and a realistic chance of relationship recovery.
How do you assess the likely success of a third party persuasion case?
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We assess case feasibility based on relationship duration, emotional attachment, financial dependence, whether cohabitation exists, whether the spouse has already decided to leave the marriage, and how the third party is psychologically positioned in the relationship. Earlier-stage affair cases and marriages not yet beyond repair are generally more suitable for intervention.
Will my spouse or the third party know that the persuasion process is happening?
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Usually not. Our third party persuasion service is structured to avoid open confrontation, avoid triggering defensive reactions, and avoid exposing the client unnecessarily. Contact strategy, pacing, and communication style are designed to keep intervention discreet and to reduce the risk of escalating the marriage crisis.
Do you handle Taiwan, Mainland China, cross-strait, and overseas marriage crisis cases?
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Yes. We regularly assess cases involving Taiwan, Mainland China, cross-strait marriages, Hong Kong, Macau, Southeast Asia, and other overseas regions. Cross-border marriage crisis work depends on travel patterns, communication channels, psychological access, and regional execution feasibility, so strategy is tailored to the structure of each case.
How is Spiritual Detective different from standard relationship counseling or marriage counseling?
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Standard counseling usually focuses on emotional support and communication between the couple. Spiritual Detective work goes further by addressing third party interference, affair-driven attachment, marriage crisis strategy, and practical intervention design. It is not just emotional comfort; it is a structured relationship recovery service.
How is pricing estimated, and what happens in the initial consultation?
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Pricing depends on case complexity, anticipated intervention depth, contact frequency, time horizon, and whether cross-border coordination is required. The first consultation reviews the marital situation, the third party's role, the spouse's stance, the client's real objective, and overall feasibility before any service recommendation is made.
FREE CONSULTATION · PRIVATE CONTACT

You Don't Have to Carry This Alone

No matter what stage you're in, you can begin with one confidential conversation. Tell us what happened, what you fear, and what outcome you want. We will assess the situation honestly and tell you what is feasible before you commit to anything.

Free First Consultation
Reply Within 24h
Absolute Confidentiality
Taiwan & China Coverage
Psychology-Led Guidance
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